I’m a dreamer


I’m a dreamer. I believe in dreams. I believe in miracles. I believe in people. I believe in moments that take your breath away. I believe that life is worth living when you have beautiful people around you. I believe that a smile can brighten someone’s day, and sometimes it might not be yours.

I believe the family that you were born in is not the only one you will have in a lifetime. I believe the friends that are there to support you in every moment, good or bad are the family that you create and choose for yourself.

I believe that we came to this earth with a reason. Some of us will find it very early; others will probably still be looking for a long time. The secret is not to stop looking. Looking for a reason, a purpose, a thing, a person, a place, a moment in time…something that will take your breath away and in that specific moment everything will make sense and you will know that the search was worth the wait, that the time was not spent in vain. And all your questions will finally have an answer. 🙂

I live for my dreams,
I live for my family,
I live for my friends,
I live for the moment!

What do you live for? 🙂

Voluntar la ING NYC Marathon 2013


Cea mai extraordina experienta de cand sunt la NY a fost maratonul de duminica.

Recunosc ca sunt inca sub influenta emotiilor dupa ziua de duminica. Chiar daca nu am alergat eu la cursa, experienta de voluntar la un eveniment atat de important este ceva de neuitat. Au fost 10.000 de voluntari, dintre care peste 100 eram la impartirea pelerinelor dupa linia de finish. As fi vrut sa fiu chiar la finish sa impart medaliile, dar nu toti au acces la acele posturi 😉 Trebuie sa fii membru oficial NYRR si sa mai ai experienta de voluntariat la ei in trecut.

Dean Karnazes semnand postere la standul the North Face
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Yeeey!!! Special pentru mine! 🙂

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Inca de la inceputul saptamanii au inceput sa apara prin oras postere cu maratonul (metrou, vitrinele magazinelor, autobuse). Joi s-a deschis marathon expo unde l-am cunoscut si pe Dean Karnazes si de la care am obtinut si un autograf. Este un om foarte simplu si cald, statea de vorba cu fiecare persoana in parte si facea poze. Vineri seara a fost ceremonia de deschidere si parada natiunilor. M-am simtit ca la olimpiada. A avut loc chiar langa linia de finish. A vorbit mai intai presedinta NYRR. A continuat cu un moment artistic prezentat de un grup de acrobati si cheerleaders, dupa aceea urmand parada tarilor. Fiecare tara era prezentata – numarul de alergatori inscrisi in cursa, cateva cuvinte despre tara. Castigatorii de la barbati si femei de anul trecut au alergat cativa metri simbolic pana la linia de finish.

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Unul dintre reprezentantii Romaniei la maraton
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Parada natiunilor
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Parada natiunilor
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Focuri de artificii la finalul ceremoniei de deschidere

A venit si ziua maratonului, am inceput duminica la 8 dimineata. Ne-am adunat toti voluntarii si am plecat sa pregatim zona de dupa finish unde urma sa impartim pelerinele. Central Park si toate strazile din jur erau inchise. Aveau acces doar persoanele acreditate pentru cursa, iar la intrarea in parc politia verifica si actele de identitate ale fiecaruia.

Duminica la NY a fost foarte frig si un vant foarte puternic, am cam inghetat toti pe acolo. Dar cand au inceput sa vina alergatorii tremurand de frig, si cu buzele vinete, am uitat de tot si nu mai puteam sa ne plangem ca ne este noua frig. Am auzit toate cuvintele de multumire posibile in cateva limbi, am fost imbratisati de alergatori pentru ca ii ajutam si le puneam pelerinele pe ei. De la frigul prin care trecusera unii abia se miscau si ajungeau cu lacrimi in ochi la noi rugandu-ne sa punem mai repede un poncho pe ei. Am plecat pe la 7 seara de acolo si spre final deja mergeam noi in intampinarea lor sa-i incurajam si sa-i ajutam.

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mai e un pic, un pic 🙂
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peste 10000 de voluntari la maraton, dintre care peste 100 eram la impartirea pelerinelor dp linia de finish.
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au inceput sa vina eroii zilei 🙂

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Nu am mai vazut demult atatea emotii intr-o singura zi. Voluntarii erau foarte sociabili si amabili, mai mult decat dornici sa ajute toti alergatorii cu orice. Erau persoane de toate varstele, de la adolescenti pana la peste 60 de ani. Unii care nu au alergat niciodata un maraton, dar care vin in fiecare an ca voluntari, doar de dragul cursei si de a ajuta alergatorii. Atmosfera de maraton inca se mai simte in oras. Ieri am vazut foarte multa lume pe strazi cu medaliile la gat. Ii felicitam pe fiecare si-mi multumeau toti cu un zambet larg.

“Whether you’re a runner, volunteer or spectator, you’re still a part of the NYC Marathon” – unul dintre motto-urile cursei. 🙂


Multumesc NY si NYRR pentru o zi de neuitat! 🙂


6 tips on how to get out of your debt


I have recently read Robert Kiyosaki’s book “Rich Dad’s Guide to Becoming Rich“. It’s a great book with a lot of practical advises and financial tips on how to get rid of your debt and how to educate yourself financially.

I like his books because they are very easy to understand for everyone who doesn’t have a financial education. The biggest part of his advises can be applied immediately in our daily lives.

Here is an extract from the book that I think it’s very easy to apply for everyone and it can be a great 1st step in taking control over your own finances:

Pay yourself first. Put aside a set percentage from each paycheck or each payment you receive from other sources. Deposit the money into an investment savings account. Once your money goes into the account, DO NOT take it out until you are ready to invest it. Congratulate yourself! You have just started managing your cash flow.

Focus on reducing your personal debt.

Tip #1: If you have credit cards with outstanding balances, keep only one or two credit cards in your wallet.
Keep the other cards out of sight, preferably in a safe or a safety-deposit box.

Any new charges you add to the one or two cards you now have must be paid off every month. Do not incur any further long-term bad debt.

Tip #2: Come up with 150$ to 200$ extra per month.
Now that you are becoming more and more financially literate, this should be relatively easy to do. If you cannot generate an additional 150 to 200$per month, then your chances for achieving financial freedom may only be a pipe dream.

Tip #3: Apply additional 150 to 200$ to your monthly payment of ONLY ONE of your credit cards.
You will now pay the minimum PLUS the 150 to 200$ on that one credit card.

Pay only the minimum amount due on all other credit cards. Often people try to pay a little extra each month on all their cards, but those cards surprisingly never get paid off.

Tip #4: Once the first card is paid off, apply the total amount you were paying each month on that card to your next credit card.
You are now paying the minimum amount due on the second card PLUS the total monthly payment you were paying on your first credit card.

Continue this process with all your credit cards and other consumer credit such as store charges. With each debt you pay off, add the full amount you were paying on that paid-off debt to the minimum payment of your next debt. As you pay off each debt, the monthly amount you are paying on the next debt will increase.

Tip #5: Once all your credit cards and other bad debt are paid off, continue the procedure with your car and house payments.
If you follow this procedure, you will be amazed at the shortened amount of time it takes for you to be completely debt-free. Most people can be debt-free within five to seven years.

Tip #6: Now that you are completely debt-free, take the monthly amount you were paying on your last debt and put that money toward investments.
Build your assets.

That’s how simple it is.  🙂

Good luck to all!

A Killer In Your Fridge ~ Sweet Poison…A MUST READ

In October of 2001, my sister started getting very sick. She had stomach spasms and she was having a hard time getting around. Walking was a major chore. It took everything she had just to get out of bed; she was in so much pain.

By March 2002, she had undergone several tissue and muscle biopsies and was on 24 various prescription medications. The doctors could not determine what was wrong with her. She was in so much pain, and so sick she just knew she was dying.

She put her house, bank accounts, life insurance, etc., in her oldest daughter’s name, and made sure that her younger children were to be taken care of.

She also wanted her last hooray, so she planned a trip to Florida (basically in a wheelchair) for March 22nd.

On March 19, I called her to ask how her most recent tests went, and…

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Rock’n’Roll Madrid Marathon


So I guess I’m a runner. Or maybe I’m not anymore, considering that since I moved to Dubai I ran only 5-6 times probably.
Last week I was in Madrid for the Madrid Marathon. It was my first race abroad, and my most difficult to date. There was a fight in my head starting with km 13. Something like: stop just for 1 min, run, walk, I CAN do this! The profile of the race was very hilly and the finish was in uphill…maybe they wanted to kill us. 😀

I have to admit that I didn’t really train for this race. My longest run was a 7k in a parking lot where I live. And I haven’t been to the gym for the last 4 months. Considering all this, I can say this half marathon is one of my biggest achievements to date and the medal will be one that I will cherish the most.madrid marathon

During the run I was trying to sum up what I feel about the race and about this challenge and this is what I came up with. I posted this on my Facebook immediately when I got home that day.  🙂

3 degrees C at the start+wind+all those hills+almost zero training=Madrid, you almost killed me today!!! I guess we really don’t know what our limits are until we are being forced to push them. Gracias, Madrid! WE did it!!! 🙂 :

the medal



photo source: https://www.facebook.com/RnRMadrid?fref=ts

Andre Agassi’s speach at Stefi Graf’s induction into the International Tennis Hall of Fame

I have never been a big tennis fan, I don’t know the game’s rules or anything about how they play.
I only know the big names of the sport and of course everyone of us heard about Andre Agassi.

His book “Open” has been on my “to read” list for a while already and I just came across it in a bookstore recently.

Can I say that I fell in love with this man after reading his book?! Because I think I did. 🙂

I will not write a review of the book, just go to a bookstore, online, or wherever you like to shop and buy this book already and READ IT!!! Trust me, it’s worth the money and the time!

One of the things that impressed me the most about the book and him is how he talks about his wife, Stefi Graf, and his love for her. I wish that everyone would feel a love like this

Bellow is Andre’s speach at Stefi’s induction into the International Tennis Hall of Fame in 2004.

“I realize the words have yet to be invented that are large enough, colorful enough or true enough to express the heart and soul of this woman that I love, Stephanie!

I wonder what could I possible say to give justice to the way you’ve lived your life and the lives that you’ve changed. I began several years ago with a small chalk board sitting in our kitchen, a tradition that I’ve carried on every night, that at the end of each day I have picked up the chalk and I’ve tried to express the many things you mean to me. Sometimes just a brief line, sometimes a short story, but always an overflow from a grateful heart. And yet after these months and years after writing to you each night I have never been at a short of these ways to reflect the light that she brought into my life. And now, how ironic that in these few short moments I need to capture in words these saying that I deeply appreciate in you. Maybe I can say it to you this simple way:

Not long ago we were on the road and I looked at our hotel room window from upper floor of a very tall high rise  I could see the rooftop of an old and beautiful cathedral. There was stunning with the carved stone and marble done so perfectly. I could not believe the work of art I was seeing and then I wondered how many years did it take them to create this and what drove them to be this committed  then I began to appreciate something greater. I realized when this rooftop was built it was by far the tallest building and in the age long before the airplanes and skyscrapers these artist believed each day as the went about their work that no human being, no one set of eyes will ever see their creation. How could they not have cut one corner, how could they considered no task routine. i can only think it came from a deep place inside, the need to be true to themselves was their reason and the reward.

All of this has helped me to understand you just a little bit better, never needing applause to be at your best, only needing the best your soul can give to feel complete.

From the roar of voices inside the lines of a center court to the quietness of a child’s bedroom, that generous soul, that unbending strength, that soft spoken integrity has not one time been shaken.

The arena of tennis has simply given you a platform and an opportunity to refine those inner qualities even more. You have always been about the action, not about the words. You have never defined yourself by what you have achieved, rather you have achieved by how you defined yourself. And even now it has taken my breath away to see how you quietly laid down your racket to pursue love and motherhood with the same zeal and high standards you have always demanded of yourself. 

Now, no one has ever known you being infatuated by your own accomplishments. In fact, as I’ve always said, anyone who speaks with you will most likely forget the great things you’ve done within 30 seconds. But they will feel cared for, their feelings engaged, and you never let go of their heart until you know that they know they are completely understood.

The history books will record for posterity your ability to embrace and rise above adversity, to play trough injury, and to win, again, and again, and again. Far in the future people will analyze and thus discuss your place as the greatest of your time and as those future generations hear of your strength and dominance they may be tempted to think that they know you or the real heart of a giant that beats inside of you. But for those of us who are blessed to actually see first hand your quiet humility, to watch you represent your sport with unmistakable dignity, and for those of us who are even more blessed to be lifted out of our selves by your laughter, to be on the receiving end of your always generous heart we have etched forever and us something a statistic could never contain. We have been touched deeply by your life, you have made us better and we will never be the same. 

Stephanie, you have spent many years of your life competing, but right here where we stand and the years of your children and right now in my heart you have no rival. 

Ladies and gentlemen, I introduce to the greatest person I’ve ever known, Stephanie Graf!”

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Pur si simplu niste cuvinte frumoase…

“Daca pentru o clipa Dumnezeu ar uita ca sunt o marioneta din carpa si mi-ar darui o bucatica de viata, probabil ca n-as spune tot ceea ce gandesc, insa in mod categoric as gandi tot ceea ce zic.

As da valoare lucrurilor, dar nu pentru ce valoreaza, ci pentru ceea ce semnifica.

As dormi mai putin, dar as visa mai mult, intelegand ca pentru fiecare minut in care inchidem ochii, pierdem saizeci de secunde de lumina. As merge cand ceilati se opresc, m-as trezi cand ceilalti dorm. As asculta cand ceilalti vorbesc si cat m-as bucura de o inghetata cu ciocolata!

Daca Dumnezeu mi-ar face cadou o bucatica de viata, m-as imbraca foarte modest, m-as intinde la soare, lasand la vederea tuturor nu numai corpul, ci si sufletul meu.

Doamne Dumnezeul meu daca as avea inima, as grava ura mea peste ghiata si as astepta pana soarele rasare. As picta cu un vis al lui Van Gogh despre stele un poem al lui Benedetti, si un cantec al lui Serrat ar fi serenada pe care i-as oferi-o lunii. As uda cu lacrimile mele trandafirii, pentru a simti durerea spinilor si sarutul incarnat al petalelor…

Dumnezeul meu, daca as avea o bucatica de viata… N-as lasa sa treaca nici o zi fara sa le spun oamenilor pe care ii iubesc, ca ii iubesc. As convinge pe fiecare femeie sau barbat spunandu-le ca sunt favoritii mei si as trai indragostit de dragoste.

Oamenilor le-as demonstra cat se insala crezand ca nu se mai indragostesc cand imbatranesc, nestiind ca imbatranesc cand nu se mai indragostesc! Unui copil i-as da aripi, dar l-as lasa sa invete sa zboare singur. Pe batrani i-as invata ca moartea nu vine cu batranetea, ci cu uitarea. Atatea lucruri am invatat de la voi, oamenii… Am invatat ca toata lumea vrea sa traiasca pe varful muntelui, insa fara sa bage de seama ca adevarata fericire rezida in felul de a-l escalada. Am invatat ca atunci cand un nou nascut strange cu pumnul lui micut, pentru prima oara, degetul parintelui, l-a acaparat pentru intotdeauna.

Am invatat ca um om are dreptul sa se uite in jos la altul, doar atunci cand ar trebui sa-l ajute sa se ridice. Sunt atatea lucruri pe care am putut sa le invat de la voi, dar nu cred ca mi-ar servi, deoarece atunci cand o sa fiu bagat in interiorul acelei cutii, inseamna ca in mod neferecit mor.

Spune intotdeauna ce simti si fa ceea ce gandesti. Daca as sti ca asta ar fi ultima oara cand te voi vedea dormind, te-as imbratisa foarte strans si l-as ruga pe Dumnezeu sa fiu pazitorul sufletului tau. Daca as sti ca asta ar fi ultima oara cand te voi vedea iesind pe usa, ti-as da o imbratisare, un sarut si te-as chema inapoi sa-ti dau mai multe. Daca as sti ca asta ar fi ultima oara cand voi auzi vocea ta, as inregistra fiecare dintre cuvintele tale pentru a le putea asculta o data si inca o data pana la infinit. Daca as sti ca acestea ar fi ultimele minute in care te-as vedea, as spune “te iubesc”si nu mi-as asuma, in mod prostesc, gandul ca deja stii.

Intotdeauna exista ziua de maine si viata ne da de fiecare data alta oportunitate pentru a face lucrurile bine, dar daca cumva gresesc si ziua de azi este tot ce ne ramane, mi-ar face placere sa-ti spun cat te iubesc, ca niciodata nu te voi uita.

Ziua de maine nu-i este asigurata nimanui, tanar sau batran. Azi poate sa fie ultima zi cand ii vezi pe cei pe care-i iubesti. De aceea, nu mai astepta, fa-o azi, intrucat daca ziua de maine nu va ajunge niciodata, in mod sigur vei regreta ziua cand nu ti-ai facut timp pentru un suras, o imbratisare, un sarut si ca ai fost prea ocupat ca sa le conferi o ultima dorinta. Sa-i mentii pe cei pe care-i iubesti aproape de tine, spune-le la ureche cat de multa nevoie ai de ei, iubeste-i si trateaza-i bine, ia-ti timp sa le spui “imi pare rau”, “iarta-ma”, “te rog” si toate cuvintele de dragoste pe care le stii.

 Nimeni nu-si va aduce aminte de tine pentru gandurile tale secrete. Cere-i Domnului taria si intelepciunea pentru a le exprima. Demostreaza-le prietenilor tai cat de importanti sunt pentru tine.”

~Gabriel Garcia Marquez

Cat de frumos ar fi sa putem urma toti acest sfaturi si sa gandim asa. Chiar si daca doar 50% dintre oameni ar gandi astel, poate ca lumea ar fi un loc mai frumos si copiii nostri ar avea o mostenire mai frumoasa de la noi.